The world has a woeful shortage
of joy and a surplus of fear, worry, discouragement and depression. Even the
“pursuit of happiness” and obsessive pleasure-seeking do not bring deep and
lasting joy.
Let’s first understand the
difference between joy and happiness. Happiness is an
emotion, and God never intended for people to be in that emotional state all
the time. There is “a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a
time to dance” (Ecclesiastes 3:4).
Biblical joy—the true joy—comes
from filling the spiritual void with good relationships, primarily an intimate
relationship with the One who is pure joy. Jesus put it this way: “I am the
vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much
fruit” (John 15:5). That fruit includes much joy!
The Bible speaks much more often
of joy than of being happy. “Hap” means chance and is the root of several words— happen, happening, haphazard(dependent
on mere chance), hapless, happenstance (a
chance circumstance) and happy.
Happiness is a glad feeling that
depends on something good happening. God
wants you to experience happy times (as long as God approves of what is
happening). But His greater desire is that you have unconditional joy. Jesus
said His joy would “remain in
you” and “your joy no one will
take from you”(John 15:11; John 16:22, emphasis
added throughout).
Think of joy as a strong
foundation that supports a variety of healthy emotions, including happiness.
The long-range evidence of joy is general gratitude, contentment, optimism, a
sense of freedom and other positive attitudes.
Joy looks out and up,
not inward
A common mistake is to think that getting something will make you
happy. We tell ourselves, “If
only …” But joy and happiness come much more from giving and serving than from getting.
The apostle Paul reminded his
listeners that Jesus Christ had taught this very thing: “There is more
happiness in giving than
in receiving” (Acts 20:35, Today’s English Version).
To grow in joy, we must resist
not only self-pity but also being self-centered and self-absorbed. For joy to
flourish, we must focus on loving others and especially on loving God.
Joy is largely composed of gratitude —gratitude for the
wonderful things God has done for
us and His “exceedingly great and precious promises” for our future (2 Peter 1:4). Gratitude produces
joy (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18). And our gratitude should be for other people’s
blessings as well as for our own (Romans 12:15).
Try to follow this biblical
formula: Add to your life gratitude, humility, forgiveness, faith, hope,
patience and love. Take away resentment, anger, fear, worry, materialism,
greed, jealousy, complaining and pride. The result? Joy!
Joy is spiritual, supernatural
and essential
God is joyful—far more than any
human being ever was! It’s tragic that many people think of God as somber and
stern rather than cheerful and smiling with a great sense of humor. He is
enjoying His creation, and especially the delightful anticipation of many new
“sons of God” (Romans 8:14; Romans 8:19).
True followers (imitators) of God
will be joyful also. Psalms 68:3 says, “Let the righteous be glad; …
let them rejoice exceedingly.” God desires that we serve Him “with joy and
gladness of heart” (Deuteronomy 28:47).
Paul spoke of the “joy of the
Holy Spirit” (1 Thessalonians 1:6). It is through His Spirit that God shares
and communicates His joy.
And when Paul lists the “fruit of
the Spirit,” joy is second, preceded
only by love (Galatians 5:22-23). If we are filled with godly love, won’t that
produce joy? Of course it will.
Being second in the list
surprises many people who mistakenly think joy is spiritually unimportant. Some
religious people even shun joy,
at least subconsciously, thinking that pious people should instead be solemn. A few even choose
asceticism, which God abhors.
Joy is a major topic in the
Bible. In the King James Version, “joy” appears 158 times and “rejoice” 198
times (not counting other variations such as joyful, joyfully, joyous, jubilant, happy and glad ).
Rejoice is the verb form of joy,
meaning to feel or have joy! Clearly
there is great emphasis in the Bible on feeling and expressing joy. That explains why the Bible
also emphasizes prayers and songs that praise (celebrate) God (James 5:13; Colossians
3:16-17).
Joy is not optional. The Bible
repeatedly commands us
to rejoice! The most emphatic exhortation is in Philippians 4:4, where
Paul says, “Rejoice in
the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!”
Is it wrong to have sorrow?
The Bible describes two kinds of
sorrow. “For godly sorrow produces
repentance leading to salvation, not to be regretted; but the sorrow of the world produces
death” (2 Corinthians 7:10).
Those who have joy frequently
experience godly sorrow at the same time. It can be the sorrow of repentance
toward God. Those who feel the worst about their sins feel the greatest joy
about their forgiveness and God’s amazing grace.
Another example is mourning over the suffering of
others while having the joy of knowing that God will eventually solve all
problems (Matthew 5:4).
Worldly sorrow is generally
self-pity or a victim mentality. While one indulges in worldly sorrow, it’s
virtually impossible to have either godly sorrow or joy.
Isaiah’s prophecy said Jesus
would be “a Man of sorrows”—sorrows over mankind’s sins and suffering (Isaiah
53:3). Yet He was also prophesied to be “anointed … with the oil of gladness
more than [His] companions” (Hebrews 1:8-9; Psalms 45:6-7). And indeed,
Christ had great joy and also experienced great sorrow (John 17:13; Matthew
26:37-39).
Grieving is a healthy response
when a loved one dies. However, if we believe the truth of the resurrection, we
also have comfort and joy because we know our loss is only temporary. The grief
is much more painful for those “who have no hope” in a resurrection (1
Thessalonians 4:13).
Joy because of trials?
God’s joy continues to flow
through His people even during their suffering because of their rock-solid hope.
They know that all suffering is limited to this short life, and the time will
soon come when “there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying”
(Revelation 21:4). They “rejoice in hope of the glory of God” (Romans 5:2).
We also have good reason to
rejoice because of our
trials when we understand how God is using those trials to help us build godly
character. “And we know that all things [even severe trials] work together for
good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose”
(Romans 8:28).
More specifically, Paul wrote
that “we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering
produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope” (Romans
5:3-4, New International Version).
James wrote, “Consider it pure
joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that
the testing of your faith develops perseverance”—perseverance in remaining
faithful to God (James 1:2, NIV).
And because Christ suffered for
each of us, we should have a special joy when we are persecuted for our faith.
Jesus said, “Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in
heaven” (Matthew 5:11-12).
The number one key to joy:
God’s Spirit
Supreme joy is God’s nature and
character! We see proof everywhere in God’s creation—birds singing, animals
leaping, flowers blooming, brooks babbling and the sun shining! Many people
would be less depressed if they would spend more time outside. God “gives us
richly all things to enjoy” (1 Timothy 6:17).
Since God is exceedingly joyful,
His servants should also be joyful! Sadly, many who claim to be His disciples
are austere, sour and dour. But take note of Luke’s description of true
disciples: “And the disciples were filled
with joy and with the Holy Spirit” (Acts 13:52).
How can we be filled with joy and
the Holy Spirit? “Then Peter said to them, ‘Repent, and let every one of you be
baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission [forgiveness] of sins;
and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit’ ” (Acts 2:38).
What then? Our unique joy begins
because Christ lives in us (Galatians 2:20). He tells us to “rejoice because
your names are written in heaven” (Luke 10:20). We then have an intimate
relationship with the One Psalms 43:4 calls “God my exceeding joy.”
In His presence “is fullness of joy” (Psalms 16:11).
God’s Spirit is a tree of life,
producing life-giving fruit (Galatians 5:22-23). That fruit includes
great joy.
Jesus prayed for His followers
“that they may have My joy fulfilled
in themselves” (John 17:13).
He also teaches us to pray for
joy and for all our needs. As He tells us in John 16:24, “Ask, and you
will receive, that your joy may
be full!”
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